What's the deal?

What's the deal with 'leagues' when it comes to genders and relationships?

Yes, I am back on relationships again but I really don't follow it. It's not acceptable but it would be hypocrite of me if I were to say it's not right for a 'model in the making' to be in a relationship with some sort of ogre because I think in a relationship or to like someone, it's not fully built on personalities, there is definitely a huge pull with being attracted to someone because that's the first thing you see, you can't see a personality (obviously). You approach them thinking they look nice/hot/beautiful/etc and you speak to them.

What I'm speaking of though is when someone knows them, get's along with them well and then to completely rule out being in a relationship with them because they consider themselves as could get someone better or something along them lines, whether they say it out loud or they keep it to themselves.. Everyone is guilty to it to a degree and I think people would agree if they were being 100% honest with themselves.. I have been and everyone else has.

I think it's to do with peer pressure that's gone on over time because as an example, I'm not sure but I think I may like someone who I guess some people would look at and say I could get them and some people say I couldn't and I think people who are either jealous or close to them will say things to them that are along the lines of 'you could do better' or 'not in your league', even if it's not that straight forward and blunt but over time, people do start to think that - no matter how well they get along with the other person and probably could be a fit.

But, just for the record - I'm not including whether you can actually like them or not because obviously if you don't, what can you do? haha!

I just reckon people should give more people a chance and I think there would be a lot of people who would surprise themselves.

On a slightly more random note - if you like someone and you see them being close to the opposite gender who you know they're not 'good friends' with, it's not bad if you envy it if you'd never tell them or do anything about it because 1) you have no right to and 2) because you're not a prick? Does that like mean anything or something? I'm a little clueless sometimes.

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