I've recently been noticing people on facebook (and twitter) going crazy about how much of a wanker the parents are. This personally drives me up the wall so much, I literally cannot stand some of the stuff people write and then you see in the comments section that it becomes the lamest excuse of a reason to call their own parents 'wankers' or siblings.
I would just like to say before anyone has a moan at me is I do accept some people have problems with their parents and some genuinely do 'hate' them because some families can be messed up to beyond belief so please excuse yourself from this rant. I also exclude someone I know who's parents are so strict, she may as well not have a life.
It's the people who have a totally normal life but can't stand not getting their way, I know some parents are strict but don't you find that these sorts of people come out really well? Go on to lead quality lives, make lots of money, meet someone and start a family. They do well. Before you say, I'm totally for children, teenagers and young adults for living their life, my parents for one are strict but also have a lot of give so I can go out where I want, go to places the other side of the country and generally go out and have a good time at parties and things but at the same time they have some strictness with things such as behaviour because my siblings and I don't get away with a huge amount if we're slacking or being a prick or causing trouble.
I can understand when it's frustrating but you see some people saying things like 'I CAN'T WAIT TO MOVE OUT' - yeah, okay, you're 15. It's gonna be fucking years yet, grow a dick (or a pair of tits). It's the concept that ignorant teenagers who completely forget that they have a roof over their head, hot meals and lunch every day that take it totally for granted. I'm not perfect, there are certain things I've done where I've completely taken what I've got for granted and fucked off and done what I want, but I have never once said 'I HATE MY PARENTS' or some shit because I'm always now concious of what they have done and giving a little back is the least you can do and if something were to happen, e.g. god forbid but one of your parents died, I know for a fact you'd feel lost and hurt substantially.
I also accept that people don't often get on with their parents, heck, this year I didn't talk to my mum for ages when everything was happened and yes, I disliked her but I never ever said I hated her and I wanted her to 'fuck off' or 'die' because at the back of mind (no word of a lie), I appreciate what they've done and what they're currently doing under completely different circumstances to say what, 2 years ago. I've also had several arguments with my dad this year and I've never once done this. I would also like to point out that this certain blog post isn't trying to justify that I'm perfect because I'm far from it. I'm simply sick of people taking it totally for granted.
ANYWAY. Done!
Cheeeeers ears. x
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