Relationships

Don't you just hate it when people just moan and moan about their relationship? When someone does, I can't help but ask myself the question - 'why do you bother, then?'. It's strange because I think why the hell don't they ask themselves that question and even when they do it's said sarcastically.

I always look at relationships at this age as 'why are we setting ourselves up to get hurt?'. This sounds so pessimistic but technically, it's realistic. I mean, nobody wants to get hurt so why set yourself up to have that happen? I know this sounds really anti-relationships but I'm actually not, I love being in a relationship as much as I do being single but I can't stand the feeling after it finishes, even if it finishes well. I suppose it's always great when things are going well and things but when it's not and you see it blatted all over Facebook about how shit everythings going and sarcastic 'Why do i bother?' - I automatically think it's so selfish because people don't want to read about your personal life, if I did - I'd ask you or we'd be close and I'd already know. Hence why I have this blog, big things that I really care and I'm willing to put out there, I'll write on here because it's totally optional, if you don't wanna read it because you can't be assed or not interested - fair shout! But if you do, then it's there but also I think it's selfish because of all the people on facebook who would kill to have what they have but haven't found the courage or the right person who will and they probably think the same.

Thinking about that, I hate it when in relationships when such small things because a huge issue, I don't understand why you'd want to make something small into something big when you know it will cause problems? Why can't people be happy with what they have and enjoy being in each others company because you clearly like them - that's why you're in the relationship. Don't get me wrong, I know disagreements happen but if they're minor, i think it's healthy because then there's room for discussion and improvements but it's when someone blows something that's so minor into something that can throw the spanner in the works with the relationship.

Finally, I know people would agree on this but I think it's the most stupid thing in the world - when people throw the word 'love' around, it's so wrong. People say 'hate is a strong word'.. Really? 'Love' is the total opposite and is a strong word yet people throw that around like anything, people who pretend to be in 'love' when they've been with someone 2 days.

Aha! What a rant. To end on a high note, I don't hate relationships and I don't hate 'love' - i hate you.. LOL joke! I love you guys, thanks for readinggggggggggg!